Let’s cut to the chase: I don’t believe in work/life balance. There, I said it. It’s a myth—a unicorn, a mirage, a pie-in-the-sky idea that just doesn’t hold up in real life.
Think about it: work is a part of life, not some separate thing we’re supposed to balance against. And the whole idea assumes there’s some perfect, magical harmony we can achieve. After years of coaching and working with people, I’ve yet to see this mythical “balance” in the wild.
Read MoreWhile most of us likely started this year with great intentions, I believe we transition over with the same slate we had in the previous year. It doesn’t magically become clean on January 1st. We have to do the work to clean it, regardless of what day it is!
Read MoreHave you ever stopped to think about how we use the word “play?” My kid plays soccer. I love to play pickleball. Let’s play catch. It goes beyond the play room and into the world of sports...and life if we choose to let it. If we choose to have a play perspective.
Read MoreWhat does ‘playing in the gray’ even mean?
"Playing in the gray" means navigating all that life has to offer, the good and the not so good, rather than focusing on binary choices or rigid structures. It’s about embracing the messy middle, where not everything is clearly right or wrong. For many women, playing in the gray can be particularly empowering and sometimes even a little scary.
Read MoreAs tempting as it may be to think about why women might be perceived as "people pleasers" and how they could change, it's important to approach this topic with sensitivity and awareness of the diverse experiences and personalities of women - background, culture, personality, etc. Instead of focusing on stereotypes or placing blame, the focus can be on assertiveness and boundary-setting, which can apply to anyone, regardless of gender.
Read MoreWhen it comes to negotiating money, women sometimes tend to sell themselves short. The money stories we’ve been fed throughout our lives don’t align with asking for more, and better yet, for what we’re worth.
Read MoreThis was a big year for me and Awarify Coaching. 2023 was the first year where I was able to focus a good portion of my day on coaching and growing my business. 2023 was the year I decided to take on both one-on-one clients AND corporate clients. 2023 was the year I said yes more.
Read MoreBelonging is a fundamental human need that only adds to our lives and contributes to our overall well-being. The feeling of being part of a community or a group that accepts and values us is key. However, cultivating belonging isn't always automatic or as natural as it may seem, but it is something we can actively work on and nurture.
Read MoreIn our fast-paced and constantly connected world, finding moments of solitude often feels like a luxury. However, carving out time for ourselves is essential for mental well-being and personal growth.
Read MoreIn our fast-paced and often full lives, it's easy to get caught up in the never-ending cycle of striving for more - having more, doing more, being more, etc. We find ourselves constantly chasing the next goal or longing for what we don't have, overlooking the beauty and simplicity of the present moment. However, cultivating a sense of gratitude can transform our perspective and bring us closer to experiencing true peace and joy.
Read MoreIn a world often ruled by black-and-white thinking, the idea of embracing both/and offers a new perspective that challenges our traditional mindset. The concept of both/and acknowledges the possibility of multiple truths, perspectives, and solutions existing in one space, without the need for compromise.
Read MoreIn today’s world, there’s a lot happening – commitments, activities, get togethers, obligations, etc. Speaking from personal experience, it can be very overwhelming.
It’s absolutely critical from a self-care perspective to manage the overwhelm and decide who/what gets your yes and who/what gets your no.
Read MoreWhen we’re reactive and then hard on ourselves about said reaction, there are essentially two roads we can go down. Two ‘why’ roads if you will.
Read MoreSuccess is such a personal word. I bet if you were to survey a 100 different people on their definition of success, you’d get a 100 different variations or answers. And that makes sense because everyone values different things
Read MoreI know what you’re thinking. “Parita, we’re not supposed to care about what other people think. Isn’t that what you always say?”
To that I would say, “Yes, absolutely! Being a people pleaser is a form of self-sabotage.”
Read MoreDoes life feel a little overwhelming right now? Does it feel like you have a lot going on personally? Does it also feel like there’s a lot going on in the world right now? Things you may or may not agree with? Hurt, pain, fear?
If this resonates, please know you are not alone! I am right there with you.
Read MoreThe unsuccessful bounce back.
It happens to the best of us. You know, where you feel angry, sad, frustrated, etc. but don’t let yourself fully feel the emotion before trying to elevate yourself to more constructive ones.
Read MoreHow often do you think about your personal brand? And when you do, do you think it’s all about you?
I’ve got a secret for you. It’s not about you at all! At least not in the way I think about it.
Read MoreIf asked to identify the one thread that ties all of my coachees together, I’d say it’s the desire for more confidence. Confidence to take up space. Confidence to own decisions. Confidence to ask for what they want. Confidence to take a leap. Confidence to live the life they desire.
Read MoreAfter 38 years of searching, I put two and two together and found the secret to success.
Are you ready? Hang on tight!
The secret to success is...
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